Can someone PLEASE explain something to me ...please?

[StPaulieGirl]

That is a very good point.  It could also include "date rape" where a guy is either drugged, or gets wasted....then wakes up next to coyote woman.  9 months later, the letter from child support services shows up :/

[Davy]

It's not just single women hitting on married men...it's just as likely to be married women or about to be married women.  

On one occassion after finally understanding that I was very very very married (the kids pictures were displayed) she explained to me that she wanted kids and her husband (tested) was shooting blanks.  Now that's what I call stud service !!!!

I don't frequent bars.... this happens in the workplace, the campus and you should don't neccessarily have to be traveling on business (but it helps).

[sweetnsad]

I think you said it just fine...Nothing wrong with that explanation at all...It's hard to argue with the facts...

[Davy]

Melissa darlin sweetie,

Respectively..

Ding ding !!  I do not know why you feel or think the way you do or how you could conclude from my posts your "poor woman was wronged" verbage.  I suspect that you, like I, have much greater matters on our plates right now.

The whole Koby case is a FARCE and I was trying to emphasize that if anybody should have been arrested and facing a life in prison it should be her rather than him.  Our social conditioning is that 'only' men are rapist and it's just not in our vocabulary to say a woman should be arrested for rape.  Moreover, I think cases like this has a way of playing down the tragedy of real rape victims.

I suspect your DH is a most fortunate man and you as well.  May you celebrate ...not only anniversaries but many loving and fond memories DAILY.  Note : I thought you would remember the Gage-A-Go-Go's of the sixties.

BTW, you went off topic ..I just responded.

[Davy]

The main issue in this thread is RAPE.  Recommendation at EOM.

For Indy and others of the same ilk I will try to be clear in language you might comprehend :

I have always put real women on a pedestal.  For those that think they are women I don't move past ... I run over .... if I so choose.

As long as a woman considers womanhood as two tits, a hole and a heartbeat that can suck a garden hose dry the woman will never discover the real virtues and qualities of womanhood.  Nor will they have any discoveries if they just run off at the mouth spewing out their own insecurities thru their own deficiences and ignorance.

As for my personal concern on RAPE issues..she was 16..blond and blue eyes ..good sudent..athletic,cheerleader, bubbly.. intoxicated..taken to the woods .. 3 men age 29,30,and 31..2 with substantial criminal histories..left in woods..newspaper reported ..afterwards ..partially clothed in shock at farmhouse..authorities found site..shoe and ripped clothing..  clothing..physical scars..never regained full conscience..18 yrs..no prosecution ... I repeat NEVER regained conscience.................

A high recommendation.  Stop demeaning real men and women until you get real and grow up.  You have no idea where you are at or what is going on outside of your own wittle world.  In short, please be considerate and value other people.

[Davy]

FLUFFER so I'm told but you probably already knew that !!!!!!

[MKx2]

Yes, m'dear Davy - I DID go off topic and yes, I DEFINTELY remember go-go girls LOL!

ONE MORE TIME - and I suspect this is merely semantics, Davy ... I do not believe that woman was wronged in any way.  She went with full knowledge of what "could" transpire.  Bryant, in my opinion is the victim for having been weak of will.

And, I agree that MANY women dress and behave in a manner that is unbecoming (IMO) to what has been referred to as the "fairer" sex)e.g., enticing clothing and behavior with NO thought of following through with what they are presenting.  

And, you're right - it is a diffcult thing to say that a woman raped a man.  It goes against all of the things we were "taught" as children.  I suspect that we all need to expand our vocabularies to include this phrase.  It not only is real, it happens more often than is publicized, or than we care to think about.

Have a good evening Davy ;-)

[Indigo Mom]

What are you referring to?  Is male rape a fluffer?  A penis a fluffer?  WTF is a fluffer, Davy?

To me, a fluffer is a peanut butter and marshmallow fluff sandwich.

[Indigo Mom]

Maybe if I was talking to a real man I'd be a bit nicer.  I'm not speaking to anything resembling a real man, so deal with it!  Real men don't bait.

You post some off the wall crap about women, lumping them all together.  When you stop doing that, I'll stop givin' ya shit.  

-----In short, please be considerate and value other people. -----

Right back atcha, doughboy!

[Brent]

> I could be wrong, but I didn't think it was possible for a
> man to be sexually attacked, i.e. raped. Isn't it physiologically
> impossible? Emotionally for sure, but physically?

You're kidding, right?

More men are raped in prison every day than there are women raped in a month in all the cities in the U.S. combined. Don't accept my word for it, check the stats yourself, it's not hard to verify.