Divorce & Residency

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I'm also thinking that since HE filed, he can't use the SSCRA to ask the court to stay any proceedings (like stop and hold) while he's overseas.


That's not entirely true....
The SSCRA was changed in Dec 03 (nka SCRA) and allows for a stay at any time of the proceedings if the servicemember requests it. The SCRA says that the servicemember should be given a 90 stay automatically if asked and then any additional stays are left to the courts discretion.