Mother interfering with communication

[StPaulieGirl]

Well, once you're in Colorado, maybe things will change for the better.  Right now you have a full plate.  I would definitely document what you can.  Then you'll have a starting point to take to court.  You'll want to obtain more visitation, plus have it stated that she cannot move from the jurisdiction.  If you're close by your daughter, that would solve the communication problem.

I'm starting to think that courts are just for the benefit of lawyers.  The more arguments and disagreements there are, the more money the lawyers get.  

[MixedBag]

Ummm....the court order doesn't cover Jessi writing everyone, only you.

The court order doesn't cover letters, only e-mail.

I too don't see what the difference is on a personal level, but the order doesn't cover letters, it talks about e-mails, right?  And it doesn't talk about everyone only you right?

If the order talks about one call on Sunday nights at 7 pm, that's really the only "call" that you can take the EX back to court for.  Yes, it would probably be reasonable to be a bit late on your part.  Dooo Dooo happens and I'm gonna guess (advise) that the judge would say no earlier than 7 pm, but within say the next hour.

See -- those "major activities" are interference with your time.  Check out "www.bigzoo.com" because it's just like a calling card, cheap, and instant documentation of when you tried to call.  You can try say every day in the morning on Saturday and Sunday and if mom doesn't answer the phone, it becomes a "so what".  BUT when it's in addition to the 7 pm try on Sunday evenings per the order, the "so what" documentation turns in showing the Mom won't cooperate with proposed Plan B or C or D....but she can't get into trouble specifically for not allowing Plan B, C, or D....only what's in the order.

I agree with Joni....stick to the order and press forward.

[sherrianddwight]

>Well, once you're in Colorado, maybe things will change for
>the better.  Right now you have a full plate.  I would
>definitely document what you can.  Then you'll have a starting
>point to take to court.  You'll want to obtain more
>visitation, plus have it stated that she cannot move from the
>jurisdiction.  If you're close by your daughter, that would
>solve the communication problem.
>
>I'm starting to think that courts are just for the benefit of
>lawyers.  The more arguments and disagreements there are, the
>more money the lawyers get.  
Maybe you could mail the letters to one of her friends homes or even to the school. IF that worked you could send envelopes and stamps there. I guess it wouldn't hurt to try.