DH had attorney file for a motion because BM refuses to work with parenting consultant. Their divorce requires them to use one.
Court date is on a Thursday at 3pm. DH's parenting time starts at 5pm on Thursdays. BM is saying there's no way she'll be able to get the kids to the exchange point because of the court date and is telling DH he won't see the kids that night. Depending on how long they're in court, this is possible.
DH tells her she has plenty of time to find someone to drop them off, court isn't until January. And that he plans to send someone in his place (they share legal). BM then goes on to say she's not leaving the kids with anyone but DH or me (SM). OK, which one is it? You can you get them there or not?
Also, Step dad has every other Thursday off, and court falls on his off Thursday. For over a year, he's been doing the drop off on those Thursdays (just did it this past week). BM is saying he has to work (I'm sure a lie, but can't prove it).
Bottom line, can BM refuse DH time because of the court date? They live 40 or so miles apart so DH picking them up at BM's house isn't feasiable time-wise (need homework, dinner time etc).
I know DH can't require her to find someone to drop kids off, but she's been trying to noodle out of the Thursday nights for some time and uses every excuse she can find to not do it...
Lastly, DH suggested BM contact his attorney to discuss a new court date if it's such an issue. BM responded it wasn't her issues and she's done discussing it.
Court date is on a Thursday at 3pm. DH's parenting time starts at 5pm on Thursdays. BM is saying there's no way she'll be able to get the kids to the exchange point because of the court date and is telling DH he won't see the kids that night. Depending on how long they're in court, this is possible.
DH tells her she has plenty of time to find someone to drop them off, court isn't until January. And that he plans to send someone in his place (they share legal). BM then goes on to say she's not leaving the kids with anyone but DH or me (SM). OK, which one is it? You can you get them there or not?
Also, Step dad has every other Thursday off, and court falls on his off Thursday. For over a year, he's been doing the drop off on those Thursdays (just did it this past week). BM is saying he has to work (I'm sure a lie, but can't prove it).
Bottom line, can BM refuse DH time because of the court date? They live 40 or so miles apart so DH picking them up at BM's house isn't feasiable time-wise (need homework, dinner time etc).
I know DH can't require her to find someone to drop kids off, but she's been trying to noodle out of the Thursday nights for some time and uses every excuse she can find to not do it...
Lastly, DH suggested BM contact his attorney to discuss a new court date if it's such an issue. BM responded it wasn't her issues and she's done discussing it.