>I would suggest you treat her exactly like you would want to
>be treated. Take the high road. What is the harm in her
>having medical and school info? It is, what it is. IMO, by
>withholding it looks like your hiding something.
>
>My next statement is NOT about you so don't get offended. But
>too many times the legal system/winner take all attitudes
>cause conflight where there should be none.
>
>Parents (plural) should raise children not the legal system.
>It's so sad when a parent acts against the the best interest
>of their children because the hate their ex. Been there with
>
CPS, so I feel your pain.
>
>LizaLou
well thats exactly how i was treating her. it even caused conflict between me and the wife. she felt i was being more supportive of the bm than her. we have worked things out and are fine now.
i offered bm many options and she threw them all in my face.
you can only be the nice guy for so ong when people are craping on you.
i'm with you on the parents should raise and not the legal system. thats i never took her to court for custody before. i paid my support with out the court telling me to(i dont want praise for that, it should always be that way) and day after day i would ask to be in his life and for him to come live /visit with me. for 5 years i kept hope alive that one days she would see the good in that and agree. she never did and the only reason i got custody is because CPS was involved. so its not that i took her to court to take him away she took her self to court and gave him away.
when he was first born her dad even told me that if we ever went to court he would fight me every step of the way.