'The
BM has the "evidence" and I have none, basically, to show what they are doing.'
Look, Heston....you are letting your ex get to you as badly as she's getting to your DD. Her 'evidence'? What evidence?? If what she has is credible evidence, then the police and
CPS would have been up your backside with a flashlight LONG before now. NO ONE in authority finds her credible, which obviously means that neither is her so-called 'evidence'.
'Or they have given her something to eat which made her sick (not unheard of as they've given her laxatives just before visits to me so she spent the entire weekend in the bathroom).'
Have you told ANYBODY about this?? Police? CPS? DD's doctor? Even if you don't have proof, a medical doctor can have labs run to prove if there are laxatives in her system. If she
ever comes to your home like that again, and you suspect the ex has given her laxatives, IMMEDIATELY take her to an ER and have her evaluated. You HAVE to get this documented, because if you are right, she should be charged with child abuse. And the only way to make this happen is to have her evaluated by an objective medical professional. That is probably the ONLY way you can try to get this stopped......