IMO, if your
DH gives in, it will never stop unless something catastrophic happens.
I agree with everyone else, it's better to nip it in the bud now.
September 2009, I purchased uniforms to last my
SD two weeks, but I paid for it with my credit card and I kept the receipt. Biomom claimed that some of the shirts were too big. So my DH picked them up and WE exchanged them.
However, on the flipside of that, LAST year my DH
GAVE her $100 for one child because Biomom said she wasn't used to paying for two kids, since SD2 just started pre-k. SD1 is going to 3rd grade. What did he do that for? Biomom called on the kid's weekend with their dad, and asked if we could take the kids to school on Monday because her flight from FLORIDA is delayed.
:/
She didn't have money for her children's incidentals, but she had money to go to Florida.