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Blast from the past
« on: Jun 01, 2013, 03:08:32 PM »
Hi guys!

It's been a long time. I hope everyone is doing well.

My SD is now 22 years old. Our story, at least my part, started when she was only 5 years old.

SD has now cut us off for 2 years. I miss her terribly but am really concerned about reuniting. We have a wonderful 3 yo now and I don't look forward to introducing her into that drama.

I tried using my old techniques to find out where she is and how she's doing but she is very well hidden.

Take care,
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Re: Blast from the past
« Reply #1 on: Jun 01, 2013, 04:21:49 PM »
REF!!!!!!!!!!  It's great to hear from you!!!   ;D
 
I can completely understand your trepidation about reuniting with SD.  I agree...involving your 3 y.o. into this, without knowing what the outcome might be (given the history), might not be the best idea.  But I think that, if you do find her, just letting her know that you and DH are there for her and still love her no matter what would still be a good thing.  Maybe leave it up to her if she wants to reunite?
 
Stick around for awhile, k?  ;)
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Re: Blast from the past
« Reply #2 on: Jun 01, 2013, 04:48:53 PM »
yeah.....that's a blast.
 
stick around and good to hear from you

 

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