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I had them ever weekend, that was court ordered the beginning of this year (Feb).  Then we went to mediation and I lost a weekend a month, but we worked out every other week just for the summer.  That is where we stand now, 3 weekends a month during school and week on week of during summer.

I have been back in the kids lives for about a year now and in the summer we agreed to week on week off.  Yes they do sleep over at my house.

By me fighting for more, I could lose more?  My understanding is that the Judge will try to find middle ground...I'm I wrong?

MomofTwo....I haven't taken anything you have said as harsh condescending.  That message was intended for one person.  Sorry.

I truely appreciate everyone's advice...Thank You!

Angus.

Good Point Ocean...Right now, my lawyer is digging up dirt on her.  I don't know if that is the right path or not....Opinions?

Dude..Seriously, Knock it off......Start your own post, but keep mine on topic, please.

This is my situation....Anyone who has any constructive advice that is non-condescending is greatly appreciated.  Also, please don't take it personal, I don't think it's healthy.

I don't make it a point to argue with anybody; it's just, I try to perceive it as the Ex would....

Thanks for all the help!
Angus

Are you saying that children that move frequently are not has happy or don't do as well in life?  I wonder how many military members and thier family's would disagree with you?

Transportation cost are more tolerable for an adult?  Of course, the girls don't have jobs and can't afford it?

Wonder when hubby is going to have another career move?  See sentence two....

Were did you pressume that she thinks her husband has "rights?"  I have no idea where you are coming up with that?

Of course many children have grown and prospered when their Dad was primary...But mine have specifically done well while the Mom has been primary, she has been their rock and go to parent their entire lives

Think outside the box?  This is the 21st century....There is no box any more!

I hate to nay say your ideas...But if I can argue your points, I'm sure a Judge with several years of experience can as well and be better at it than me.

I don't think she will burden herself......

If I had to guess I would say that means; Fall Break, Winter Break, and Spring Break, and two mos out of the Summer.

Yes, She would be able to afford the plane tickets...That wouldn't be a problem.

Does this make her look better when we go to trial...That she is offering me everything?

Ex is now offering me all Holidays, entire months of June and July, and she is offering to pay all transportation fees for the children....Still an up hill battle for me, we will see what happens.