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« on: Sep 01, 2009, 07:04:41 PM »
sorry, i think this is more of a rant than anything....
My husband's BM recently got married to a man she had know for less than a year. He is not involved with the kids, he doesn't barely even know them. The problem is, he thinks he is involved in their disputes. First of all, she has probably never told him the truth about all the stuff she has put my husband's children through. Now my husband and BM are in a pretty nasty dispute, she lost in court against him recently and is very pissed. what upsets me is that BM's husband thinks this is his fight. He gets all crazy when we pick up the kids, he has threatened my husband more than once. I on the other hand, have been sitting by my husband's side for 4 years silently. Of course i talk shit with my husband. But I have NEVER in 4 years said a bad word to her to her face or over the phone. I NEVER talk bad about her around the kids or to the kids. I always just tell them that i want whats best for them and for them to be happy.
do we just have to deal with his ridiculous behaviour? My husband has called the police once to make a complaint. But technically the step-dad has never hit my husband, just threatened, and screams and calls bad names. I think he is just trying to defend his wife's honor or something macho like that, but I think he is completely out of hand, and I do not want the kids to witness him putting his fists up at their father. It just makes me so mad, because obviously if he is going to behave this way, he clearly doesnt care about his new step-children.....
does anyone else have to deal with this?