so our lawyer realized that court order said that Parenting evaluator's job would end once a parenting plan is established. Since we don't have one yet, that means that her job is not done. Therefore she can continue with her evaluation up to two moths before the court date. BM doesn't want the evaluator and claims she is biased but she wants us to come up with a new evaluator (??). We obviously don't have an issue with the evaluator so why would she assume that it's our responsibility to get a new one? It's one of the weird things about BM. She won't do anything and expect us to fix her own issues (!). Our lawyer has told her numerous times that she is not HER lawyer and she doesn't have to give her legal advice. Anyways, the evaluator, after reading court order, agreed to proceed but lawyer asked BM that if she doesn't agree with the update then we will file a motion of contempt, which means more money to spend for us. It's really frustrating and I guess I don't have a question... just venting. This whole thing seems so absurd.