My ex and I separated informally (without paperwork) quite some time ago. How will custody be decided after all this time?

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My ex and I separated informally (without paperwork) quite some time ago. How will custody be decided after all this time?

May 14, 2012, 08:25:00 AM

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My ex and I separated informally (without paperwork) quite some time ago. How will custody be decided after all this time?

If a substantial amount of time has passed with no legal separation or custody order in effect, it's likely that the prevailing arrangement(s) (whatever they may be) will be used by the court as the basis for determining custody. 

The court will usually preserve the status quo, unless sufficient reason exists to change it. In essence, whatever you've been doing in terms of 'custody' will probably continue.

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• I'm the non-custodial parent. Do I have to get the custodial parent's permission before cutting my daughter's hair, or letting her pierce her ears?
• Does the non-custodial parent have the right to be involved in the decision-making as to the education of his/her children, especially as regards homeschooling?
• My ex is trying to get her new husband to adopt my children. I don't want to lose my kids. Can she do this against my will?
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• My ex does not call, visit, or write our child. Is there any legal action I can take to make my ex use his/her visitation time?
• My child hasn't seen the non-custodial parent in over four months. The non-custodial parent now wants to resume visitation. Can I ask for supervised visits?
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• My ex lost custody of our kids 9 months ago due to a domestic violence incident in her home. What are the chances of her getting custody back?
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