I have noticed that some don't like it when I don't want SM watching the kids

[DeterminedForTheBest]

I think I would have to agree with what everyone's said. As well as not using ANY relay, making sure that there's no "well -insert name- didn't tell me therefore I wasn't even aware that your surgery was cancelled," because if the options there to play stupid I'm sure that he'll take it if it saves his rump.