Is there any other Mom here that is not allowed contact with their

[olanna]

And honestly, I really don't know...

Are you an NCP mom too?

[momof2]

ollana,

When you say that you are being denied visitation until the ransom is paid, does this mean child support arrears?  I've never heard of a court denying visitation due to child support.  Most states stress that child support and visitation are strictly separate issues and one does not impede the other.  Is the state of SC not allowing you visitation until you pay child support arrears?  That is insane.

[jilly]

I'm talking about what Peanutsdad posted and your response to him. Maybe you were just being sarcastic and I missed it. But I do agree with what he said. Just let it go.
No I'm not a noncustodial Mom so I can't say BTDT in your situation. I am a stepmother though. I have no problem with this board being here. But, just because I haven't been through what you're going through doesn't mean I can't occassionally offer suggestions and/or advice.