My husband wants custody of his two children

[billievaughters]

I live in md

[billievaughters]

balitmore county is where the grandmother lives

[gemini3]

Shockingly, MD elder abuse laws only apply to "vulerable adults" whcih means they are unable to care for themselves.

I think you'll have to go through the police.  I would also approach Grandma and let her know that you will make sure that she still gets to spend time with her grandchild, and that you want to help her because you're worried about her safety.  Encourage her to get help, and to call the police the next time she is assaulted. 

I would also call the police the next time BM threatens you.  Don't worry about who's there to see it.  It's better, in my opinion, for kids to see how to handle a situation like that and know that it's not ok for people to act that way.

[billievaughters]

thanks for everyone's responses. I will be calling the police everytime she acts out and trust me this has been going on for three yrs now it's not going to change.  Does anyone know a good lawyer in md that does pro bono?