Blast from the past

[Ref]

Hi guys!

It's been a long time. I hope everyone is doing well.

My SD is now 22 years old. Our story, at least my part, started when she was only 5 years old.

SD has now cut us off for 2 years. I miss her terribly but am really concerned about reuniting. We have a wonderful 3 yo now and I don't look forward to introducing her into that drama.

I tried using my old techniques to find out where she is and how she's doing but she is very well hidden.

Take care,
Ref

[Kitty C.]

REF!!!!!!!!!!  It's great to hear from you!!!   

I can completely understand your trepidation about reuniting with SD.  I agree...involving your 3 y.o. into this, without knowing what the outcome might be (given the history), might not be the best idea.  But I think that, if you do find her, just letting her know that you and DH are there for her and still love her no matter what would still be a good thing.  Maybe leave it up to her if she wants to reunite?

Stick around for awhile, k? 

[MixedBag]

yeah.....that's a blast.

stick around and good to hear from you