I filed for sole custody and I ask for io dad to have supervised visitation: now

[balleros]

My son is 4 and he has spent an hour with his bio dad. I filed for child support as soon as my son was boren but I neber filed for custody.My son has my last name and father is not mentioned in any legal document.
I had issues with reimbursements from some medical expenses where I could have easily received 90 % out of $2000 but because dad did not do his part and his insurance does not have a custody order, I can't receive the money.
so that triggered the request.
dad was served.
he texted and he said he can't take the day off.
he also said "I am a better dad" and he thinks all I need is his insurance and child support.
not true
I have tried and tried to have him around
He acts as if I had offended him when in reality the ones person who was offended here is my son.
so what shall I expect?
our mediation appointment is on Monday
if he doesnt show, is this moved to another date? will they make decisions wihut him being present?

[MixedBag]

In mediation, the mediator DOES NOT MAKE decisions.  Their role is to guide both of you communicating and making decisions.

SO....either mediation gets rescheduled....OR the mediator sends a letter to the court saying mediation failed.