Can he modify support?

[MixedBag]

You should have gotten a 30 year loan and paid it back over 15 years because you could.....

[olanna]

and tell me, please...

What in the hell you were going to pay your mortgage with when the CS ends?  Certainly, the mortgage you took out was for at least 20 years...you don't have 20 more years in CS.

[olanna]

hum...doesn't sound like the son she is trying to get Dad to pay for is a Christian either...so the point is???

[olanna]

then he gets to find a second jobbie job to make the mortgage...

it's not up to your ex to pay your mortgage....