Stop Child Support NOW!

[StopNow]

STOP CHILD SUPPORT FROM MAKING YOU A VICTIM!!!

ARE YOU A VICTIM OF...
• RIDICULOUSLY HIGH CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS?                                      
• "THE EX" CONTROLLING VISITATION RIGHTS?
• WAGES BEING GARNISHED?                                                                                
• BUSINESS LICENSE SUSPENDED?
• DENIED CHILD SUPPORT MODIFICATION?                                                      
• DISCRIMINATION IN COURT BECAUSE OF GENDER?
• DRIVER'S LICENSE SUSPENDED?                                                                          
• FACING CRIMINAL PROSECUTION?
• BEING TREATED LIKE A THIRD CLASS CITIZEN?                                            
• BEING LABELED AS A "DEAD BEAT DAD"?
• TAX REFUNDS INTERCEPTED?  THE LIST GOES ON AND ON!

IT'S TIME FOR FATHERS TO UNITE!!!

WE'VE BEEN PUSHED AROUND LONG ENOUGH BY A LAW THAT ONLY PROTECTS THE RIGHTS OF ONE PERSON...        "THE EX"
Child Support laws are NOT Biblical!!!
JOIN FATHERS ACROSS THE GLOBE IN A CLASS ACTION PETITION AGAINST CHILD SUPPORT.
//WWW.STOPCHILDSUPPORTNOW.COM

[dipper]

The list on this post may seem bad..and I am married to someone who has been on that end...kinda....

I am all for child support reform, but some of the things on this list are have-to-have's.  

Wage garnishment - my ex would never pay a dime if it werent done so....driver's license suspended - I wish! If he is neglecting his children, I really dont care if he can get to work to support his own self or not.....tax refunds - only if you arent paying your child support.....

I just dont believe in going from one extreme to the other....

Its not about giving the 'ex' your money...its about taking care of your own child....

[Jade]

>STOP CHILD SUPPORT FROM MAKING YOU A VICTIM!!!
>
>ARE YOU A VICTIM OF...
>• RIDICULOUSLY HIGH CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS?  

The child support that is awarded via the courts usually doesn't even begin to cover the costs of raising a child.

                 
>                  
>• "THE EX" CONTROLLING VISITATION RIGHTS?

If "the ex" isn't following the court ordered parenting plan, file contempt of court charges.



>• WAGES BEING GARNISHED?

This is a wonderful invention that takes away the games that some child support paying parents play.                                      
>                                          
>• BUSINESS LICENSE SUSPENDED?

Pay your child support and you don't have to worry about this.

>• DENIED CHILD SUPPORT MODIFICATION?    

Modifications aren't just done out of the blue.  It depends on what the law says.
                     
>                            
>• DISCRIMINATION IN COURT BECAUSE OF GENDER?

Doesn't matter what your gender is, if you don't have custody of your child, you pay child support.

>• DRIVER'S LICENSE SUSPENDED?  


Pay your child support and you don't have to worry about this.                                
>                                        
>• FACING CRIMINAL PROSECUTION?

Pay your child support and you don't have to worry about this.

>• BEING TREATED LIKE A THIRD CLASS CITIZEN?                  

>                        
>• BEING LABELED AS A "DEAD BEAT DAD"?

Pay your child support AND spend time with your child(ren) and this wouldn't apply to you.


>• TAX REFUNDS INTERCEPTED?  THE LIST GOES ON AND ON!

Pay your child support and you don't have to worry about this.
>
>IT'S TIME FOR FATHERS TO UNITE!!!


It's time for all parents who are ordered to pay child support to pay their child support.
>
>WE'VE BEEN PUSHED AROUND LONG ENOUGH BY A LAW THAT ONLY
>PROTECTS THE RIGHTS OF ONE PERSON...        "THE EX"

Uh, wrong word.  Replace ex with CHILD.  And children are very lucky that those laws are in place.

>Child Support laws are NOT Biblical!!!

Biblical?  Religion has no place in the government.  

[mistoffolees]

You forgot one thing - they should stop spamming this group with their agenda. One post would have been sufficient.

[notnew]

>• RIDICULOUSLY HIGH CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS?

The child support that is awarded via the courts usually doesn't even begin to cover the costs of raising a child.

>My CS amount was originally based on an average of my last three years of income. Even though I had changed jobs involuntarily and was making less then 1/2 of what I had been making before. Also, my ex NEVER supplied ONE piece of documentation proving her income and the court went on her WORD alone. Would they have done that for me? NO WAY. It was rectified later and I have gotten ONE pay stub from my ex in over 8 years of litigation. AND that pay stub was false. One look at it and I could plainly see it was a fabrication. However, I opted to settle rather then fight it out. The support went down to a reasonable amount and I do want my child taken care of. I just know that my ex is not getting what the child really needs with the money, but there is nothing I can do about that now is there? Because, there is no accountability for how CS is spent.

>• WAGES BEING GARNISHED?

This is a wonderful invention that takes away the games that some child support paying parents play.

>I asked for CS to go through CSE on a wage garnishment becuase my ex filed false charges against me saying I had failed to pay CS despite me having all my canceled checks with her signature for over 6 months worth of CS. All of them stated clearly on the memo line that they were for CS and an order was in place that I was complying with.

>Wage garnishment protects everybody. Not just the receiver of the CS.

>• BEING TREATED LIKE A THIRD CLASS CITIZEN?

>
>• BEING LABELED AS A "DEAD BEAT DAD"?

Pay your child support AND spend time with your child(ren) and this wouldn't apply to you.

> I have been discriminated against repeatedly by the CSE office. I had to push them to accept my application for garnishment through their office because they weren't going to accept it due to the expectation that my ex should have submitted the application. I finally got them to take it. I was in arrears for 6 weeks that was paid over time. When I knew the time was getting close, I contacted CSE to make sure they knew the arrears was almost paid up. No response ever. There are many other instances where I have been treated like scum of the earth. No matter that I have paid for all kinds of things for my child that is supposed to be covered by CS, but the mother just doesn't take care of for whatever reason. I do pay my CS and I spent as much time with my child as the court's allowed and that I could until the mother's PAS campaign was successful. I still let my child know I love her and when she is ready, I am here.

>You must understand that CSE shows the CS payments in such a way as to make almost everyone "behind" slightly. That way, their "collection" efforts look much better then they really are and they get MORE FEDERAL FUNDING AND GRANTS! This is the same as it works for public schools and standardized testing. The better the grades look, the more money the school gets. Result, teaching to these tests, outright cheating, and kids who can't read, write, or do simple math upon graduation.

> I do not agree with the stop child support now message and won't join their lawsuit. I think these types of actions make good dads look bad and makes our battles that much harder to fight and overcome. However, not everything they are saying is off the mark.

[notnew]

Mist,

YES. I hate when advertiser's or people pushing an agenda end up on here.

[Jade]

>>• RIDICULOUSLY HIGH CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS?
>
>The child support that is awarded via the courts usually
>doesn't even begin to cover the costs of raising a child.
>
>>My CS amount was originally based on an average of my last
>three years of income. Even though I had changed jobs
>involuntarily and was making less then 1/2 of what I had been
>making before. Also, my ex NEVER supplied ONE piece of
>documentation proving her income and the court went on her
>WORD alone. Would they have done that for me? NO WAY. It was
>rectified later and I have gotten ONE pay stub from my ex in
>over 8 years of litigation. AND that pay stub was false. One
>look at it and I could plainly see it was a fabrication.
>However, I opted to settle rather then fight it out. The
>support went down to a reasonable amount and I do want my
>child taken care of. I just know that my ex is not getting
>what the child really needs with the money, but there is
>nothing I can do about that now is there? Because, there is no
>accountability for how CS is spent.

And thank goodness that the ncp doesn't get that much control over the CP.  Especially the abusive ones.  Not to mention that nightmare it would be for both parties to have the government doing that much control.


>
>>• WAGES BEING GARNISHED?
>
>This is a wonderful invention that takes away the games that
>some child support paying parents play.
>
>>I asked for CS to go through CSE on a wage garnishment
>becuase my ex filed false charges against me saying I had
>failed to pay CS despite me having all my canceled checks with
>her signature for over 6 months worth of CS. All of them
>stated clearly on the memo line that they were for CS and an
>order was in place that I was complying with.
>
>>Wage garnishment protects everybody. Not just the receiver of
>the CS.
>

I think that is wrong when courts treat child support like gifts.  And you are right, wage garnishment does protect everyone involved.

>>• BEING TREATED LIKE A THIRD CLASS CITIZEN?
>
>>
>>• BEING LABELED AS A "DEAD BEAT DAD"?
>
>Pay your child support AND spend time with your child(ren) and
>this wouldn't apply to you.
>
>> I have been discriminated against repeatedly by the CSE
>office. I had to push them to accept my application for
>garnishment through their office because they weren't going to
>accept it due to the expectation that my ex should have
>submitted the application. I finally got them to take it. I
>was in arrears for 6 weeks that was paid over time. When I
>knew the time was getting close, I contacted CSE to make sure
>they knew the arrears was almost paid up. No response ever.
>There are many other instances where I have been treated like
>scum of the earth. No matter that I have paid for all kinds of
>things for my child that is supposed to be covered by CS, but
>the mother just doesn't take care of for whatever reason. I do
>pay my CS and I spent as much time with my child as the
>court's allowed and that I could until the mother's PAS
>campaign was successful. I still let my child know I love her
>and when she is ready, I am here.

You are not a deadbeat parent (and please note that I used parent.  Either gender can be a deadbeat).


>
>>You must understand that CSE shows the CS payments in such a
>way as to make almost everyone "behind" slightly. That way,
>their "collection" efforts look much better then they really
>are and they get MORE FEDERAL FUNDING AND GRANTS! This is the
>same as it works for public schools and standardized testing.
>The better the grades look, the more money the school gets.
>Result, teaching to these tests, outright cheating, and kids
>who can't read, write, or do simple math upon graduation.

When I look up my child support, it shows no arrears.  And if it did, I would complain as my ex doesn't have arrears.

>
>> I do not agree with the stop child support now message and
>won't join their lawsuit. I think these types of actions make
>good dads look bad and makes our battles that much harder to
>fight and overcome. However, not everything they are saying is
>off the mark.
>
>

[Otto Mann]

• "THE EX" CONTROLLING VISITATION RIGHTS?

If "the ex" isn't following the court ordered parenting plan, file contempt of court charges.

Are you suggesting this based on your experience at successfully filing a contempt charge for not following a court order for visitation?