BM wants the kids to go to court

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April 5 is the hearing where she has to answer for all the stuff she did around Christmas. (Filing the wrong agreement behind our backs, so she could take the kids on Christmas, and illegally flying to AK with them) She says she is taking the kids with so they can tell the judge they wanted to go. I think that would be a horrible thing to do to them. They don't need to get stuck in the middle of this. The kids are on Spring break that week, and she has custody that week, too, so it doesn't seem like there is anything we can do about her bringing them in.

She also has said many times that she is going to tell the judge that joint custody isn't working, because dh is being "so unreasonable about everything." She wants to ask for sole custody back. We have had the kids more time than she has since the custody was changed, and had them more before it was changed.

Doesn't she have to file a motion to get the order changed, and if she does, don't we have to get a copy of it first? Is there a time limit on when she can file? They won't let the kids into the courtroom for this hearing will they?