ABC on Paternity Testing

[MYSONSDAD]

http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/story?id=1185107&page=1

"Children learn what they live"

[FIRM]

I am going to tell you something that you want to hear:

Your posts are correct and "on target."

No question about it.  They reflect the thinking of "fathers rights" "activists"" everywhere...

Certain things are obviously "self-evident" and your posts show that...

Now (no pun intended), I am going tell you something that you do NOT want to hear...

If you continue such postings on boards like these, you will be labeled a "KOOK," a "religous fanatic," and/or that you "hate ALL women."

Back to what you want to hear...

No matter how you are attacked, whether it be that the school that your children attend contact you about your "attitude," Whether others start to "label" you things that you are NOT, be true to yourself, no matter what!

I hope that you continue your endeavors, no matter what others tell you and say about you and believe me you, they WILL...  They will lie about you, they will twist every little word that you state to make you an evil, despicable human being.

Even though, there may not be responses to your posts, people are reading them...  Continue what you are doing!  :O

Listen to your heart.  Keep posting.  We need millions, just like you...

Eric Ericson
Fathers' Integrity & Rights Movement (FIRM)
//www.FIRMncp.com

"Conviction without action is worthless."

Mark Twain said, "In the beginning of change, the patriot is a brave and scarce man, hated and scorned. When the cause suceeds, however, the timid join him...for then it costs nothing to be a patriot."

"Those who profess to favor freedom, and yet depreciate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground. They want rain without thunder and lightning..." --- Thomas Paine, Common Sense (1776)


"The reasonable man adapts himself to the world, but the unreasonable man tries to adapt to the world to him--therefore, all progress depends upon the unreasonable man."
--Samuel Butler

Many years ago a man named Earl Nightengale gave the following advice about how to be successful, "Observe what the majority of people are doing, and then do the opposite."  It was good advice then, and it's good advice now.

"Looking foolish does the spirit good. The need not to look foolish is one of youth's many burdens; as we get older we are exempted from more and more."
John Updike

"Imagination...is the irrepressible revolutionist."
Wallace Stevens

"A revolution is coming - a revolution which will be peaceful if we are wise enough; compassionate if we care enough; successful if we are fortunate enough - but a revolution which is coming whether we will it or not. We can affect its character, we cannot alter its inevitability." - JFK

[Brent]

>If you continue such postings on boards like these, you will
>be labeled a "KOOK," a "religous fanatic," and/or that you
>"hate ALL women."

Please shut the hell up, Eric. YOU are the one that's been labeled a "kook" because of your idiotic bullcrap.

YOU were the one that blathered on like a ninny about your "magical anti-feminazi piglet sword", making everyone in the men's movement look like an idiot. What ever happened to that line of crap, Eric?

YOU were the one that went off the deep end, spouting bible verses to support your homophobia and hatred of women. Remember that?

YOU were the one that got kicked off of half the divorce boards on the internet for being such an annoying little asswipe, and for not knowing when to shut up.

YOU were the one that said "killing judges" would be a "good thing".

YOU were the one who got a mail-order "certificate" from the Universal Life Church and used it to claim you were a "Reverend", even signing your posts and emails that way.

YOU were the kook who went along with those raving idiots who want to repeal women's right to vote.

Tell me again who "hates women"? Not our users. Over half the people here are women, Eric, so don't presume to tell us what we will or won't say, or what we do or don't think.

Unlike you, MYSONSDAD has been a vlaued contributor here for years. I've rarely seen you post anything useful, but you keep babbling about your FIRM TV like we're all supposed to be holding our breath. Let me give you a tip: when you have something to show us, tell us about it. Until then, stop pimping your bullshit here. We don't want to hear about your grandiose dreams that never come true.

People that come here need help, they don't need some fool like you to tell them about your stupid vaporware TV show. And they don't need a divisive nutjob like you to stir them up and make things worse for them.

You were told by the owner that you could post here as long as you didn't 1) annoy people, 2) pimp your homegrown hatred, or 3) use this site as a free advertising venue. You've nailed two of the three so far.

This is your legacy of hatred and raving stupidity coming back to bite you on the ass. Don't say you weren't warned, because you've been told this for years by everyone who's heard your hateful bullshit. Let me put this in really plain terms, so that even you will understand it: cut it out. It would be my extreme pleasure to ban you from this board in a heartbeat.

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For everyone else, if you want to know about Eric Ericson from "FIRM", ask Maury on the Custody Board what he thinks of Eric. He'll tell you. He's called Maury a "faggot" and a "queer" because he didn't agree that gays should be "put to death", according to the great Eric Ericson. The same Eric Ericson who used to go on and on and on about killing women with his "magical anti-feminazi piglet sword".

[FIRM]

Brent,

I get the impression that you just plain don't like me.  ;)

Is it because when I attack someone for attacking me, I tell the truth as opposed to what you do when attacking others?

Anyone can lie about someone.

Anyone can take things out of context to discredit others.

Anyone can twist a person's words to reflect that person as evil.

Here's an idea:

Perhaps you should change your screen name to "Anyone?"

Eric

P.S.:  You forgot to add the lies from your list that you obviously post elsewhere whenever I post:

1.)  That I hate it when men win custody.

2.)  That I harrass others at their place of employment.

3.)  That I take computer contact information of others when they visit the FIRM site so that I can hack into their computers.

[Brent]

>I get the impression that you just plain don't like me.  ;)

For once, you're absolutely correct. I don't like you, and with good reason.



>Is it because when I attack someone for attacking me, I tell
>the truth as opposed to what you do when attacking others?

No, it's because you're an ignorant jerk, a loudmouth fool, a racist, and a homophobic kook who acts like a buffoon.

I noticed you didn't deny any of the things I mentioned. Why could that be, Eric? Could it be because EVERYTHING I mentioned about you is easily confirmed?



>Anyone can lie about someone.

You would know, Eric. The way you lied about Maury (who runs the Custody Board here) is a perfect example. Should I dig up some of those posts and show peple here the things you said and the way you tried to smear him? Remember that, Eric? You said he was gay, queer, a feminazi, etc etc etc, all because he disagreed with your hateful ravings.

Do you deny that you said that "killing judges" would be a "good thing"? Hmmm?



>Anyone can take things out of context to discredit others.

I took nothing out of context; the problem is that your asinine behavior is your legacy. You have no credibility at all, Eric.



>Anyone can twist a person's words to reflect that person as
>evil.

I never said you were evil; I said you were a raving kook, a homophobe, and a whacko. Those things are provable. I don't think you have the raw intelligence to be "evil". "Stupid" is more your speed.



>Here's an idea:
>
>Perhaps you should change your screen name to "Anyone?"

Thanks for sharing. Now here's an idea for you:

Stop being a fool and an annoyance on this message board.



>P.S.:  You forgot to add the lies from your list that you
>obviously post elsewhere whenever I post:
>
>1.)  That I hate it when men win custody.
>
>2.)  That I harrass others at their place of employment.
>
>3.)  That I take computer contact information of others when
>they visit the FIRM site so that I can hack into their
>computers.

I have no idea what you do, but none of that would surprise me in the least. Your reputation is too well-known to pretend it isn't so.

Do you still have any of those "magical anti-feminazi piglet swords", Eric? Do you deny posting that as part of your signature in hundreds if not thousands of posts on Divorcesource and other boards?

I'll warn you once and only once: don't screw around here. I won't tolerate your crap here the way they did on Divorcesource and Dadsdivorce. They eventually banned you after a protracted grace period. I'm not nearly that patient and forgiving, understand? Post helpful stuff if you like, participate in the conversations, but don't start your shit here.

[MYSONSDAD]

Your post was somewhat enlightening. I did enjoy some of the quotes used.

Here is my 'view' on your remarks.

First, I would like to address the Women Hating aspect. You could not be further from the truth. Most of the ladies on these boards are stepmoms, trying to help their DH and the children from a previous relationship. They watch these children being used as pawns, they watch alienating behavior that is riping their hearts out, seeing these children moved away by the CP, abuse, neglect. When I post, most of which are articles and links to provide them assistance, I do not post "FOR MEN ONLY". I don't even stop and check their profiles to see if they are male or female, makes no difference. What I read is someone in need of help. No restrictions by me on who reads my posts. Educating and staying on top of what is going on will only benefit everyone. There is a growing number of NC Moms. They face the same problems Fathers do.

What I do have a problem with is the word itself, NCP. A parent who does nothing to lose custody of their child, they walk into court and end up with 4 days a month. Being replaced as a visitor in the child's life. Trying to parent 30 days worth into 4.

Yes, I post mainly to the Fathers Issues board. Could be because what I find is directed toward Fathers. But again, there are many stepmoms here, so it benefits them as well.

Many of the articles I post are written by women, Wendy McElroy, Phyllis Schafly and so on. Passing important information on, is not being descriminating. There are many ladies here I have a deep respect for and they know who they are.

If I should have a link or information that others can be helped by, I WILL pass it on for everyone. If there is something going on in a particliar State, why not inform, so others are aware.

I have received many thank yous for things I post. If there is something I am unsure about, I will post for help from others or send the person to Soc. Making an effort to help others, that is why we are here. Making every effort not to give the wrong advice.

If I have stepped on toes, I hear about it. If people do not respond to my posts, that's fine, as long as they take a minute to read them.

When I first came  to SPARC, I had no idea of what was going on, did not know the laws or information that would help me in my dilemma. Now time has passed, I am not alone, have grown smarter and am willing to pass on what I have learned.

Reading these boards, seeing many facing some hard times ahead. How can a person not help? Offer a hand of encouragement to get them thru another day. Sometimes someone just needs to know, they are not alone.

If I have offended anyone, I do apoligize. If I am a problem here, I will be asked to leave.

I beleive in Shared Parenting. Every FIT PARENT should have access to their child/children. Be an active parent in time share, responsiblity, development, nurturing, have the right to make decisions for the benefit of their child/children. Have access to medical/school records. Be allowed to participate in activities.

If you have a problem with this, feel free to respond....

[FIRM]

Same sentiments.  :)

That's why I said we need a million of people just like you...

Eric