Some suggestions please!

[wendl]

Well if she is difficult stick to the court order.

Attached the court order to the email and say:

per section xx of the visitation order I will be be making travel arrangement for the kids on xx date thru xx date.  I will email you the airline confirmation at least x days before the flight.

Thank you

Don't say anything about the kids not wanting to come, keep it straight to the point,  If she says they don't want to simply state, I am sorry they feel that way, unfortunately it is the responsibility for both parents to facilitate the court order so the chidren can see each parent, they may be sad at first but they usually come around and will be fine.

If she doesn't put them on the plane, filed contempt and request she pay the court fees and airline tickets.


**These are my opinions, they are not legal advice**

[Kami]

These are some really good suggestions.  Thanks!

Kami

[Giggles]

The OP has to remove all emotion (I understand it's damn difficult to do) and just stick to the court order where PAS is concerned.  Let the BM scream, throw fits, etc...

Sadly, PAS takes it's toll on the kids...however, I know of a few people who's children were highly PAS'd for years.  Many of those children no longer have relationships with the PAS'ser and are developing new relationships with the "outcast" parent.

Continue to take the high road and put the children first...hopefully a judge will see through her antics!!

[Kami]

Thanks again!

Kami

[Fran]

Here's a site I found on PAS... you might find these articles interesting, especially in light of your situation.

http://www.parentalalienation.com/articles/index.html

[Kami]

Thanks for the website address.  I bookmarked it and will read the articles as soon as I get a chance.  The kids are definitely being alienated!!

Kami