You guys need to read this..............

[Kitty C.]

Saw this article on abcnews.com and found it fascinating:

http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Parenting/story?id=5615996&page=1

Kyle Pruett, M.D., a child psychiatrist and the author of "Father Need: Why Father Care Is as Essential as Mother Care for Your Child."

Sounds like a very good resource and hopefully will prove the point that both parents bring different aspects to raising children that ALL children need.  Unless what they are doing is detrimental to the child, how they raise a child isn't 'wrong' (as many of the EXes of people on this site seem to believe), just 'different'.

Then there was this link at the end of the article:

http://www.equallysharedparenting.com/

Sounds like another very good resource that can possibly be tapped for establishing a parenting plan.