Co-Domiciliary

[gary125]

I have a court date of March 30, 2004 and of course my ex wants the kids living with her.  I have 7 year old son and she has a 14 year old from a previous marriage.  I am 54 years old and she is 34.  We were married 10 years and it has been me that has taken care of the kids for the past three years since she is a orthopaedic nurse and is gone a lot.  I am trying to gather statistics and anything I can get to bolster my case.  Louisiana is a Joint Custody state but that only means that I can have visitation everyother weekend and maybe one day on the off week.  I would appreciate anything anyone could send me or point me to.  She was the one having the affair and I caught her (no pictures) and then she wanted to end the marriage saying she had been unhappy for five years.  HELP Please!