I think I stepped on some toes

[Dadto4]

I was able to find and get my daughter on Tuesday. The school called me and told me they has a request for records and I went to that school and talked to the school resource officers and they verified the information. My ex showed up and threw a big fit saying that the court orders was reversed and then went on to say that she never knew about them (contridicting) then said that they wasnt any good from 2001. The officer asked her if she had anything that superceded what I had and she said no. I was standing behind the counter and was waving at my other children and she got real pissy and told my children not to talk to me and jerked the stroller that my youngest was in and went out the door. Now mind you that all of this is in the police report, and the officer stated that I was extremely compliant.

Her lawyer called me a bit ago, to set a meeting before court. He told me I didn`t have a right to pick up my daughter from the school like I did. I asked him why, he couldn`t answer, just I didn`t have a right. So I asked him that since he was a judge for 19 years if a signed court order was valid, he said thats beside the point. So whats the point, he said it had to with me medically. So I asked that since I have a kidney disease that I don`t have a right to my child, he said thats not what he is saying. I asked him what he was saying and he just goes well if you can`t figure it out now you will find out when we meet. I asked him if he had a copy of my medical records he said no, I asked him if he was a Dr. he said no. Then I asked how he could diagnose me. He was getting pissed at that point and I just told him that the mother could call our daughter anytime and she knows that but hasn`t. I also asked him if it was right for the mother to refuse me to see my children and he wouldn`t answer. And I told him that she wasn`t telling him the whole truth and he would be surprised when he has the documents in front of him. She claims that she knew nothing of the divorce, and thats pretty funny when she had to show up and give me my daughter at the court room.

Since this has happened they have called the police 3 out of the 4 days to come to my house and do a welfare check. The police come and see everything is ok and leave. Now mind you she is asking that I have supervised vistation. So my documentation continues. The judge might be a little upset cause I took my oldest and had to leave the other 3 but I am willing to let mother have contact with her but she is unwilling for me to have contact with the other children.

[ocean]

so the police allowed you to sign out your oldest and keep him but would not allow you to take the youngest from BM???
When do you go to court next? Are you signing child up at your school now?

[Dadto4]

I have custody, she is already in another school, which she is so glad. Court coming up next month.

[mafitz]

Why couldn't you take the others?  Just curious.  I would have, but you are in a stressful and confusing situation too.  WTG in asserting your rights!  I mean that in a huge way.  You should be patting yourself on the back and just know that you took the best possible action for your daughter.

[Dadto4]

I have court next month. My daughter is in school by my house and they know what's going on. I couldn't take my other children because we are not married and custody hasn't been established.

[mafitz]

I have court next month. My daughter is in school by my house and they know what's going on. I couldn't take my other children because we are not married and custody hasn't been established.

Oh okay, well still WTG man!  Good luck, but you prob don't need it, you sound like you have a good grip on the situation and your original post revealed just how superior your reasoning skills are when dealing with her lawyer.