Started by wife1, Oct 17, 2011, 09:14:44 AM
Quote from: MixedBag on Oct 17, 2011, 01:27:41 PMQuote from: tigger on Oct 17, 2011, 09:52:26 AMNot sure about Tx but in NC CS can be reviewed (requested by either party) every 3 years or if there's a significant difference (ie, the new amount would be 15% higher or lower than what is currently ordered.) It's unrealistic to believe that an amount set 12 years ago would still be applicable. THAT comment bothers me...If this is something they agreed to -- .... well, see it hits home for me real closely.EX#2 AGREED/ASKED for a very low amount from me when we split and that I pay all transportation, and gasoline expenses for EX to drive our son to the airport.SO.....YES, every time he came back to court to ask for MORE CS, I consider that retaliation particularly since every time he filed it was right after I filed something to ask for more time or to ask for make-up time -- that he be held in contempt of court.YES, the amount was low.....but he came up with the number, not me. AND back then, there were no tables and stuff for our state. They were all implemented about a year or two after our divorce.There was NO SIGNIFICANT change in circumstances to warrant higher child support either. Our son was healthy -- and my insurance covered him well.I bet this dad feels that way too.....(and the Stepmom).
Quote from: tigger on Oct 17, 2011, 09:52:26 AMNot sure about Tx but in NC CS can be reviewed (requested by either party) every 3 years or if there's a significant difference (ie, the new amount would be 15% higher or lower than what is currently ordered.) It's unrealistic to believe that an amount set 12 years ago would still be applicable.
Quote from: wife1 on Oct 17, 2011, 04:06:55 PM@Mixedbag, YES the thought of her seeing our financials and our tax refund bother me a great deal!!!! I don't feel like she has a right to see it. They were never married so it isnet like they had a life together it just happened. It is one thing for the AG to see it and make a decision but for another person to see it its totally different. I feel like she agreed to that amount and has had more than enough time and opportunity to make an ammendment to it if she wanted to why wait till now? She has known for the past 6 almost 7 years that he had gotten a different job and there is no way she could have thought that he made the same amount. Her thing is that she is a bully and doesnt want anyone telling her that she is wrong. Her husband is in the military and she likes to move around and not be around any of her family so we were thinking that is one reason she never did it before so that he wouldnt add to the paperwork for her not to live more than 100 miles away.