Justice Served

[DadsCrushed]

Over the years this website has been beyond helpful emotionally, mentally and financially. I have received such good information and desperately needed it since I had to go pro se. I see the same bullsh!t in a number of threads of the father being accused of vile and heinous acts. My ex did the same to me.

Within the last week, my ex was found in contempt and serving time! Also Ms. Psycho had to settle for defamation of character for all the incessant garbage she subjected my children and I to.

I'm just saying hang in there.

[Davy]

... and BEST to the chidren and you in everything in the future !!

[sunlitbeauty]

Over the years this website has been beyond helpful emotionally, mentally and financially. I have received such good information and desperately needed it since I had to go pro se. I see the same bullsh!t in a number of threads of the father being accused of vile and heinous acts. My ex did the same to me.

Within the last week, my ex was found in contempt and serving time! Also Ms. Psycho had to settle for defamation of character for all the incessant garbage she subjected my children and I to.

I'm just saying hang in there.

I hope that the same outcome prevails in my current situation!
I am a father who lives in BC who has been falsely accused of sexual abuse of my now 9 year old daughter who lives with my mother.
I am a retired veteran of the Canadian Forces who lives on a limited pension.
I support my wife and three children (excluding my 9 year old daughter), aged 6yrs, 3yrs and 1 yrs old.
I do not have money due to my limited income for the services of an attorney, and my mother is denying access to my daughter at present.
Are there any advocates in Canada that could help me with this situation?
I do not believe that it is in the best interests of my daughter to not be able to see me.
This is not the first time that my mom has disobeyed a court order, and denied access.
It is my hope that there might be an advocate out there that could help me with this delicate situation.
The incident was submitted to protective services (Called The Ministry of Children and Families up here in Canada), and it was immediately dismissed by them. There was never an order, nor an investigation. This would probably be due to the fact that nothing has ever occurred of this nature between myself and my daughter. As I stated, I have three other children that I live with with my wife of 7 years. My other daughter would never say anything of this nature about me, as I am a very loving father and I have never abused my children. I have abused myself in doing back breaking work in order to support my family (12 hours shifts doing concrete hi-rise forming, ie. building towers) out of love for my kids to be able to have a good life, and to have the things that they need. I joined the military after the recession back in 2008 destroyed any chance I had of employment as a Journeyman Carpenter. I was injured while serving in the Canadian Forces, and I now live on a very limited income to support my wife and four children with. This issue came up around Christmas, and my oldest daughter has not received her presents to this date, and I am afraid to the amount of brainwashing that my mother (her grandmother) is subjecting her to.
I am afraid that if this is allowed to go too far, that my other three kids may lose access to me, their loving father. I have read about cases where the judge has decided to remove access in family court even when no clear evidence of a sexual offence is present. I served my country, had my livelihood taken away from me due to the severe nature of my injury(chronic pain in my lower back and left leg, which is partially paralyzed, plus three compressed discs from my military service), and now I am having the one thing threatened that I value more than anything else...access to my children, and their right to have their father, a true family man, taken away from them!