Hello. New here... looking for support or to chat with people on the same boat

[MadamAgatha]

I'm the first of my friends to do this so it's hard to find people who can relate

My divorce is not yet finalized but I still feel like I've been run over by a bus. There seems to be a lot of resources for dads but few for moms (and I happen to be located in a place that gives 50/50 by default no matter what the circumstances).

I just wish I had someone to talk to...

[Waylon]

Welcome, MadamAgatha.

There are people here who'll be glad to talk with you.

You might also want to post in the General Custody Issues (http://deltabravo.net/forum/index.php?board=4.0) message board to get started.

Cheers

I'm the first of my friends to do this so it's hard to find people who can relate

My divorce is not yet finalized but I still feel like I've been run over by a bus. There seems to be a lot of resources for dads but few for moms (and I happen to be located in a place that gives 50/50 by default no matter what the circumstances).

I just wish I had someone to talk to...

[MixedBag]

50/50 default?  what state if you don't mind my asking -- that would be an amazing place to start.