Asking a 13 year old

[Ref]

DH just spoke w/ PBFH. She turned away a letter for his 30 days notice that he is required to proved for visitation. She called him today asking him what he wanted for visitation. He told her and she said that she would discuss it with SD and if she wants to come, she will be ok with it!!! Arrrrrghhhh. We went through this drama last year! He told her that that was not the right thing to do, but how is going to stop her?

She makes me sick!

[Brent]

>She called him today asking him what he wanted for visitation. He
>told her and she said that she would discuss it with SD and if
>she wants to come, she will be ok with it!!!

Tell her that the court has ruled that visitation SHALL take place, and that he will immediately file a contempt motion if she doesn't facilitate the visitation. It's NOT up to the child to make these decisions.