How to tell my son...(long, sorry)

[Felafel]

I'm so sorry you've been going through all this.  You are a wonderful mother, and you were a wonderful daughter.  I hope things look up for you and little Z very soon.

[Buff]

I know your belief system, she's there with you, ya know. Talk to her.  

(((((AMY))))))

[Buff]

the system is hiccuping, did it for me too.  I'll delete all except primary (first) posts so as not to clutter up this thread.  

[Felafel]

Thanks Buff.  It was making me look kinda manic.

[Felafel]

Thanks Buff.  It was making me look kinda manic.

[Felafel]

Thanks Buff.  It was making me look kinda manic.

[Felafel]

Thanks Buff.  It was making me look kinda manic.

[Felafel]

Thanks Buff.  It was making me look kinda manic.

[Sherry1]

little boy being disregarded.  He is already suffereing a the loss of his grandma and now his dad doesn't want to spend any quality time with him!  I read what you posted to Catherine and I find it suspicious that Z is "fine" spending time with others.  As you said, he has a hard time going where he isn't loved.  I really do like your idea of asking Z how he feels about spending time with dad.

I also wanted to let you know that RD's father passed away last night.  I really wish you would reconsider coming back to the board.  I personally miss you and the well thought out advice you give out.  

((((hugs)))) Sherry

[Amy_in_MA]

Oh man...please please please pass along my condolences to Rd. :( It seems like everyone is losing someone lately. :(

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