Intercepting Mail

[JenG99]

 One thing you can do is send little gifts with your notes such as CD's, DVD's, gift certificates certified mail (green receipt). If the children do not receive these things keep all receipts for all purchases. Over time let these things accumulate. File a civil suit in small claims for all items intercepted. You will win a judgement and the BM will be forced to give the notes and gifts to the children or pay up in civil court.