The only one playing by the rules

[raywagg]

I do the proper steps, take caution with every step, watch not to put the kids in the middle, step away when the other party wants to take the low road, keep paperwork and police reports, try to stay in contact through letters and cards when she does the disappearing act with the kids and that doesn't work she doesn't accept the cert. mail. I don't know how to win in letting my kids know I haven't left them and that I'm fighting hard to see them and spend time with them. Who can tell me how to deal with driving 400 miles to spend time with my kids with a court order and still no kids. Who can tell me how to handle the next sunny day when I can't go to the park with the kids or even talk to them, or know how thier life is, how do i deal with not being able to tell them every thing will be ok I'm still the same dad you knew before Sept. 19,2004?

[socrateaser]

Stop whining. This is not a group therapy board. The object here is to win and nothing else. If you want help you need to follow the other poster's examples, post the SPECIFIC facts of your case and then ask numbered questions based on those facts. Now then, some help based on the only useful fact that you posted.

Unless you are actually effecting personal service of legal process by certified mail, then it is no longer as important as it once was to obtain the other parent's signature as proof of document receipt. Just send the letter certified, but without the return receipt or signature confirmation request.

The certified mail number will be tracked by the postal service and when the document is delivered, the time and date will be recorded and available for you to print from the //www.usps.com website for FREE.

The printout is all the evidence that you need in court. As a matter of law, a letter that is properly addressed and posted is presumed to be delivered, and it becomes the duty of the recipient to prove that it was not received. If you have the printout of the tracking number showing delivery occurred on a time and date certain, then the court will refuse to accept the explanation of the recipient, unless he/she claims the mail was stolen and a theft report is filed with the U.S. postal inspector.

[raywagg]

1) I filed motion to show cause denial of court ordered visitation.
I filed mtion to modify visitation
The only thing that got filed was the request for service.
I find out that my ex filed motion for supervised visitation.
After I sent her and atrny. show cause and modify visitation
2) I hired a new atrny family law he said he would hande new motions.
Court is on Monday for her show cause for temp. sup.
and to the supervised visitation. How do I combat this i want more visiation and she is blocking all contact but says I'm confusing my sons.
and writes a letter to the court saying my son wants to kill himself and he is scared of me and he had a dream that I let a woman kill him. All this after we agreed we would work together more, seek counsiling with my son and called for assistance in finding help. What shoul I do about her contrast in actions better yet what do I do about her saying I hurt my son?

[socrateaser]

Ask that your attorney move to appoint a Guardian Ad Litem to represnet the child's interests.