When does it become contempt?

[NeverGiveUp]

My ex is threatening, via email' to violate my court ordered visitation time.  Basically, she doesn't want to negotiate our current order,which doesn't allow for vacations' but has stated that she has already booked a vacation and intends to go.
1)When does this become contempt?
2)Are there any other charges that can me made or do I have to wait until the action takes place?

Thanks Soc

[socrateaser]

>My ex is threatening, via email' to violate my court ordered
>visitation time.  Basically, she doesn't want to negotiate our
>current order,which doesn't allow for vacations' but has
>stated that she has already booked a vacation and intends to
>go.
>1)When does this become contempt?

Contempt occurs when the defendant acts to violate the order. Just saying that she is going to violate the order is not enough.

>2)Are there any other charges that can me made or do I have to
>wait until the action takes place?

Wait.