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#41
Father's Issues / Re: a question about custody?
Jun 28, 2012, 12:15:08 PM
i see, yea of course the ex lives with her parents anyway,so the child could be with the mother and grandparents friday thru sunday..
#42
Father's Issues / a question about custody?
Jun 28, 2012, 10:43:09 AM
Me and my ex lives in NYC, we have a 6 year old daughter, we both share legal custody, she has physical custody while me having every other weekend visits.And we also have alternating 2 weeks in the summer, the time this order was granted was couple of months ago, she was not working so she had full time with the child, but now she does work full time m-f and she get weekends off, but the child stays with the grandfather i live like 15 or 20 mins away.

So my question is it possible to have custody with my daughter during the summer? another thing the mother went to another country twice this year, and leaving the child with the grandparents, and now she going again next month, she goes because she met a "boyfreind" that she barely even know and about to get married soon, not that i don't mind she stay with the grandparents, i believe i could be responsible for her and stay with her while the mother works and she took take her back on friday when she comes home from work...
#43
She does have history of violated visits,i was in a custody battle, she even put a false order or protection but we got that solved.And the judge told her if u don't come back in 2 weeks she give me sole custody..
#44
I was order visitation back in June 10,2010, and was awared joint legal custody, because she has a history of violated my visits.But what u said i don;t have that in my order...
#45
Me and the ex live in NYC, our child is 6 years old, the mother has physical custody while me having every other weekend visits,and we have joint legal custody,while we alternate every 2 weeks for the summer.The mother has been out the country 2 twice this year, she met a guy over there, supposedly engage so soon.Now she wants to take our daughter over there on her 2 weeks that she has time with our daughter, she be going with her mother.And now she claiming that the guy might live with them in the U.S.A.My ex lives with her parents and she like 23 years, she work full time m-f 10-7,and the grand mother works also.The grandfather does not work he stays home all day..Taken care the child while the mother and grandmother works, so if this guy lives there, im not going to allowed it..I go to school tueday and thursday 6-9 so i have more time with my daughter, so my question is it possible to have physical custody of her? cuz now the ex is threating me to take me back to court cuz i won;t sign the possible..

#46
the child never left the usa, but the mother has been back and forth, but this time she wants to take the child over there with her,and the childs grandmother.So she could introduced them.
#47
In the summer we have 2 weeks alternating, so when she get those 2 weeks she might go to DR, to see her and she taken my daughter also because she told she might go back on agusust
#48
She does not have a passport yet
#49
I feel your pain man.I'm a father as well of a 6 yr old.I believe you could try getting every other weekend visitation because you do have that right to be with your daughter.Full custody? To bad you can;t unless the child is in danger, like she using drugs,abandoned etc.Or try to talk to her saying," let your daughter stay with you for 1 week and 1 week with her and see what she says, if not..You tell i take you to court simple as that, and i know 60 miles is pretty far, tell her to go half and half on travel 30 miles and u travel 30 miles and meet at mall or restruant and see how that goes..
#50
Me and my ex live in NYC.We have a 6 yr old child together.I have every other weekend visits and her with physical custody, and we have joint legal custody.She went on vacation on March for a week,she met somebody over there and now they "engaged" which i believe is ridiculous to soon.But anyway she went back this month and stood another week and left my daughter with her grandparents, Now she might go back I don;t know when but if she does she going to take our daughter to the Dominican Republican basically to be with him, but i don;t know that man to have my daughter around! So I'm not going to sign no passport for her to be with him, and have my daughter around especially in a foreign country..

cases like this what can be done?