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Custody Issues / KENTUCKY IS 50/50 NOW
« Last post by Birtha on Nov 11, 2018, 08:34:01 AM »
If you live in Ky, and you have no issues with drugs, child abuse,  domestic violence, and you live in proximity to your children...
You now can have 50/50 Custody WITH 50/50 PARENTING TIME!!! 

Check out the new law that went into effect July 14th, 2018.  KRS403.270. It is rebuttable presumption 50/50 on new, AND previous Orders!  You must file a Custody and Parenting Time Modification, along with an Affidavit.  You can file pro se if you can't afford an attorney! 

If you'd like more info, contact me.  Facebook page:
Parental Alienation in KY
Good luck!!
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Custody Issues / Restraining orders and custody
« Last post by Jonrooke20000 on Oct 18, 2018, 08:18:46 PM »
So this  is how I started my wife and I were getting along for a while.    Oh the last 10 years she’s been emotionally mentally and physically abusive toward me she has told me to die she just has told me to kill myself and to just disappear and never be seen again.

On top of that she has punched me  choked me not me to the ground and kicked me so hard while I was holding my son that I had to go to the ER because she chipped a bone in my hip. Given I have not been the best husband I’ve lied because of fear of reparations so three weeks ago night before my son’s birthday I had bought decorations and I was going to put up at like two in the morning before I had to go to work at four so that everybody would be surprised.

She got angry because she felt I was including her.  Got an argument about it and so she went in to clean the living room while I was setting up decorations with our eight month old daughter.  She came out looking for a fight and I brought up how she had left marks on my neck when she choked me and I need pictures of it.

As soon as I get that she ran around the island in our kitchen and try to grab the baby out of my hands so I put the baby away because I didn’t feel like she was safe    I had recorded the last five minutes of her screaming at me telling me that I should die I should just kill myself that my kids would be better off without me but after she tried grab my daughter and my hands I told her I was calling the cops 

When the police arrived they had nothing to do with me we didn’t want to talk to me I didn’t take my statement he only took hers so today’s leadership restraining order on me and had me removed from the house and took full custody of the children.  When the police arrived they had nothing to do with me we didn’t want to talk to me I didn’t take my statement he only took hers so today’s leadership restraining order on me had me removed from the house and took full custody of the children   

So we went for our first hearing the judge flat out said I put this straining order on him I will not take it off of him I was giving eight hours a week with my kids    My six-year-old is having a very hard time with not seeing his daddy fights me every time he has to go home with his mom   

 I just feel left out in the cold don’t know what to do about the whole situation.   I’ve never laid a finger on my wife or my kids I’ve been there for months every doctors appointment every school event I feel like the system is letting Me down. 
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Custody Issues / Re: Custody Change
« Last post by ocean on Sep 24, 2018, 03:37:50 PM »
Change of custody is very hard to do but if you are moving and possible, move into same school district as child. Then you can go back to court and ask for more time as you are now in same school district- maybe win the time grandma has him during week. Maybe split custody. Once you move, keep track of where he is on which days. Document. Also, do you have a relationship with other father? You can ease SS mind but saying that dad and you guys are friends and he will always get to see his siblings.
Does mom have any outstanding charges now?
Start being involved at school and when you move even more. Educational neglect can be called by the school to DCF for grades and absences. Keep documenting and when you go back for time in your petition you can list why the father wants more time especially during the school week. Also if you go back to court, have it written that mom will not move school districts without consent of father....
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Custody Issues / Custody Change
« Last post by beebeehcl on Sep 24, 2018, 12:59:32 PM »
My husband and I have been thinking about going to court to get primary custody of my husbands 11 year old son. He is currently living with his mother and we get him every other weekend and 2 weeks at a time in the summer.

We currently live in another city about 3 hours away, but due to my stepsons terrible grades so far this year we will be selling our house and moving back to town now that my husband can work from home. We try to be as involved as we can with my stepsons school and making sure that he is turning in his work. His grades right now are pretty terrible 3-F 1-D 1-C 1- B and 2-A. He does really good at tests and getting his participation work done in school but when it comes to homework during the week, its just not done. He has also missed school and showed up late with no excuse other then he got up late ( aka his mom didn't wake up and get him ready ).

She has also had Child protective services called on her by the elementary school for both my stepson and his younger brother ( not my husbands- from another guy ) for abuse and neglect. He has told us that she has driven drunk with him in the car and hit a car and drove off, again no proof but I believe him. He has also told us that she drinks and will hit him and throw his little siblings around for annoying her.

He is usually at his nanas house and not at his house. We pick him up from there and drop him off there. We haven't seen his mom in months now. Not sure why we are paying child support to her if her mom is the one taking care of him during the week. We know she smokes weed and goes out drinking a lot but I feel like thats he said she said and the judge won't care about that information unless we have solid proof.

She has been arrested for property damage on her ex boyfriends moms house ( Not sure if that will help our case )

Every time we pickup my stepson he usually needs a shower and clean clothes and his nails cut because they are all pretty terrible.

He has told us plenty of times that he wants to live with us but she guilt trips him and tells him he wont ever get to see his little brother or sister if he does. He is torn and I feel terrible but he is not happy in that house and is just staying for his siblings. We also have a daughter now and she only gets to see him every other weekend and it breaks my heart.

I should also note that we have a steady household with good income and no one coming in and out of our life. His mom has had 2 other child by 2 different men, and random men coming into the house and my stepson can hear them having sex. She also is always changing jobs and no steady income besides the child support checks she gets from her 3 children with all different dads.

idk what the point of this forum is but I guess I just want some help on if we should go to court or if this is not enough to get primary custody.

thanks!
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Custody Issues / Re: Custody Battle
« Last post by ocean on Sep 19, 2018, 03:00:36 PM »
Look up your state "motion to dismiss" fill it out and file it yourself at the clerk office. This way the judge must rule on it, verbal they can just say no and move on without a written reason why....
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Custody Issues / Re: Custody Battle
« Last post by dipper on Sep 19, 2018, 10:31:16 AM »
We have not hired an attorney for this matter yet.  I am trying to look into how to file this myself.



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Custody Issues / Re: Custody Battle
« Last post by ocean on Sep 08, 2018, 01:09:36 PM »
Our lawyer did a verbal dismissal the day of court but I would not do that again, tell lawyer to write up an dismissal paperwork and file it right away, this way judge has to rule on it in some way and give reason why/why not.
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Custody Issues / Re: Custody Battle
« Last post by dipper on Sep 08, 2018, 11:40:25 AM »
I will look into that.  The judge who awarded us with primary was a circuit court judge after we appealed from J&D.  Now we will be back in front of that J&D judge.
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Child Support Issues / Re: Unclaimed funds?
« Last post by janM on Sep 08, 2018, 10:59:16 AM »
He'd love it if he can get that money. It doesn't say how much. The letter says her arrears is about 37k but I thought she owed more like 50k.


Thanks for the reply.
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Child Support Issues / Re: Unclaimed funds?
« Last post by ocean on Sep 08, 2018, 10:39:56 AM »
Sounds like the state still has the child support case open. Mom still owes the money even though child is 19. They will keep trying to get money from mom until she pays in full or it goes to court again to get changed. Looks like they found money in unclaimed account they can take and it will be put into the child support account. (Maybe old settlement, or past taxes that were owed but never cashed check...something like that). He can call the state child support hotline and ask or go their office. My state you can log into your own account and see what is owed and any payments made to account.
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