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#11
Visitation Issues / RE: CHILD ABDUCTION!?!
Jul 13, 2005, 01:26:22 PM
I say charge her, if she goes to jail then your chances of getting custody will be even better. Me and my hubby are in the midst of a court battle for visitation with my DSS. My best advice is document EVERYHING! be prepared, and know what is going on at all times. After you go to court a few times and show a pattern you will most likely get custody.

GOOD LUCK :7
#12
Visitation Issues / Rude awakening is right......
Jul 13, 2005, 01:01:27 PM
It sounds like some online B.S. romance to me.
Have her and this dream guy even met?
Has her daughter even met the new family?

This woman is making it sound like taking that little girl away from her father to go to some strange man's house is the best thing in the whole world. Don't get me started on the whole STRANGE MAN thing.

And YES! of course there is Mother bashing, BAD MOTHER BASHING!!!! Women (and men) like this are the whole reason this site exists.

I think the child would be safer with Dad until Iceprincess gets all of her S*** straightened out. Or at least until she (iceprincess) has to standby at an airport for 8 hours to get her first *free* flight on a cargo plane.
#13
Visitation Issues / RE: YEAH!
Apr 18, 2005, 09:52:35 PM
Our G.A.L. was chosen by the judge, from a table of lawyers waiting for their cases to be called.
#14
Visitation Issues / RE: YEAH!
Apr 18, 2005, 09:00:21 PM
Dh went to court today and we got DSS for the 12 days that were denied plus an extra 4 WHOOPEE!. All in the state of Texas because the judge told PBFH that no judge in the world would make DH only visit his son in Missouri for the reasons PBFH gave. PBFH also wanted to have us drive and meet again because she doesn't want DSS on a plane but when the judge told her all she would get for travel expenses from us was $278 (the cost of airfare) she decided to go ahead and let DSS go on an airplane. We still have to take care of her motion to modify but the judge and G.A.L. are on our side and PBFH has already agreed to let DSS on a plane once so her entire defense is shot now. I'm so glad I found this web site and I thank everyone who shares their stories and advice.   :7
#15
Visitation Issues / RE: What does it mean?
Apr 03, 2005, 12:35:26 PM
thank you :)

My next question is what does it mean when they send an interrogatory, are they going to push for a court date as soon as they get the info? because we have already sent our answer to the motion to modify. During the original divorce my DH and PBFH sent paperwork back and forth for 2 years before it was all said and done.
#16
Visitation Issues / I need HELP! :o
Apr 01, 2005, 08:48:33 PM
We were sent an interrogatory in the mail today and we are Pro Se.
I do not believe that this was served through the court.
We are going to send one back but for the certificate of service PBFH's lawyer signed. So my question is who signs ours saying that they certify a true and correct copy was sent in the mail???? my DH?? a notary??

 I'm confused please HELP............
#17
Visitation Issues / RE: Update*
Mar 26, 2005, 08:50:03 AM
As soon as we got into the court room my DH was served with a motion to modify, which was the most vague and incomplete parenting plan I have ever seen, some of the sentences weren't even complete. It stated that all visitation will be in DSS's home state and of course she wants to double the CS which is fine by us as long as we get to see my DSS. I think PBFH is hoping that DH won't answer and then she'll go to court and get whatever she wants written up. A G.A.L. was appointed and the ex's lawyer tried to push DH into only 4 hours visitation after court and I told that hairy man that we were going to let the judge decide what was in my DSS's best interest, he wouldn't even look at me. The judge gave us 8 hours total while we were there and gave my DH a Birthday visit (not in decree) for the whole weekend HA! with the next court date that monday. My DH hasn't seen his son on his birthday since he was 2 he is now going to be 7. So from what I understand whatever the G.A.L. suggests is usually what the judge orders right? Because when my DH and PBFH had a meeting with the G.A.L. she lied about DH not calling for 8 months right in front of the G.A.L. and DH just so happened to have photocopies of our phone bills with him. PBFH also told the G.A.L. she took DSS to therapy because of my DH and when the G.A.L. asked why she wasn't taking DSS anymore PBFH said the therapist asked her more questions than he asked DSS. I just hope that the G.A.L. sees through all of this crazy womans LIES.
#18
Do lawyers even do that? tell the Custodial parent to deny visitation when the whole reason she had to get a lawyer is because we filed a motion for family access due to (BIG SURPRISE) her denying visitation.

We haven't seen my DSS since August 2004 for only 2 days. We are owed 14 days visitation from last year and this PBFH is being a complete A**. We finally did something about it and our court date was set for March 14. So we wrote a letter asking for visitation while we are in DSS's state ( we live 1000 miles away) and PBFH sends a letter declining visitation because her lawyer advised her to do so>???? ARRRRRAGHHHHH!!!!!!!  x(
#19
You won't have to pay support unless you legally adopt her. DON"T reduce any time with your step daughter. I am sure you have formed a bond with this child and for you to just stop including her in the visitation would cause some serious psycological damage. If your STBX plays games you're gonna have to take her back to court for contempt, just like all the rest of us do. A "Great Dad" would treat all of his children equally, step or otherwise.
#20
Visitation Issues / RE: big suggestions
Feb 08, 2005, 07:41:05 AM
PBFH is supposed to bring DSS for a weekend visit to our state on a plane, before any other visits can take place. The longer she puts it off the more time we miss with DSS. We are supposed to be geting 2 weeks this summer and it's gotten to the point where I didn't see any other option I want my DSS here for the summer.

We have a recorded phone message from PBFH saying she got our letter and DSS will not be visiting us this year. A week later we got a letter saying time off from work, lodging arrangments, and her plans to visit our state have been cancelled. The only reason why she cancelled is because she wanted a 12 day car rental instead of plane tickets, her own agenda is very clear in all of the letters she has sent, if we don't give her what she wants DSS doesn't visit. I guess we could have sent plane tickets or shown up but my DH contacted the police that are supposed to enforce the order and was told that they couldn't help him. So we didn't and if the judge doesn't order her to give us the parenting time she has frustrated, at least she will know we are serious and we aren't going to back down anymore. At some point we will hire an ATTY and file for actual contempt and a custody change, but I would like to show a pattern first so we have a better chance.