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Custody Issues / things just got complicated...
« on: Mar 20, 2011, 05:58:02 AM »
Dh has custody of oss, 17. Fri dh assaulted me and was arrested. I'll b filing D monday. However biomom doesn't want ss. Didn't call on xmas or his bday-3/10. Ss wants to stay with me as dh also choked him in september. I and my family are the only stability he's ever had. House isn't community property so dh won't get it in divorce like he thinks he will. TRO will be filed monday. I'm sure dh won't support ss, but ss has job. I don't know what to do!!

Father's Issues / Re: dwayne wade wins custody
« on: Mar 13, 2011, 05:41:58 PM »
Thank you. I do everything on my phone. Don't always get the whole story on mobile sites.

Second Families / Re: adoption
« on: Feb 22, 2011, 06:25:42 PM »
DH n I are also in wisconsin. Let me do some checking. Also look up parental abandonment in wis. I am pretty sure 1 year of no contact is wisconsin law.

Shrink Rap / Re: Borderline Personality Disorder
« on: Feb 21, 2011, 08:11:22 PM »
Us too. And walking on eggshells w/the workbook was an absolute godsend for us.

DH and I are dealing with a similar situation. Pot, truancy, disrespect and disregard for mother. For 2 yrs he had 2 sneak to see us when he visited maternal grandmother. He had a time adjusting, its been almost a year. He knows 1) we have rules that apply to both him and my bio son. 2) consequences. His mother could not control him. We think this is because he wanted/needed his father. We have not had the attitude problems his mother had. 1 rules. 2 consequences.

Wisconsin State Forum / Re: Shared Placement
« on: Feb 20, 2011, 02:08:45 AM »
That's right. Even under the old shared formula you could have had the kids all day for 7 days but if they went "home" at night? Too bad for you.

Wisconsin State Forum / Also in Wisconsin try this site
« on: Jan 13, 2006, 07:36:11 PM »

join the yahoo e-mail chat for our group.

This has helped us over the last 6 yrs with custody and visitation issues.

Child Support Issues / CS never ordered any suggestions?
« on: Nov 25, 2005, 02:07:55 PM »
My son is now 24.  from the time he was 2 until he was 13 I have tried to get his father to take a DNA test so that CS could be established.

2 states and 4 different counties later he NEVER appeared for any hearing was never declared the father by default therefore no CS.

He would LOVE to go to college and he should but we cannot afford it.

Its not about me having supported him alone his whole life, but about his father contributing something to him.

He knows about our son, but has never seen him.

THis may sound awful (not MAY sound, Does sound awful).

But he hasn't given son anything   He OWES him this.

And any idea if I can go after any of the counties involved who simply dropped the issue when he didn't reply to their letters, or show for hearings?


Child Support Issues / DH's order said
« on: Nov 14, 2005, 05:43:00 AM »
when child reaches 18 or graduates high school whichever happens later.
Just call your local CS office and ask.

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