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After not having seen my children for over one year I decided it was time to try one last time. Shortly after having my ex served, the children (15&12) were brought, by their mom, to see their GAL. That evening I received a horrifying email from my oldest. The email made it very clear that she had been given the papers from the court to read and she was enraged. The GAL never spoke to me, hasn't talked to me in 4 years, and told my children she was going to "take care of him in court". I know these things because of a small miracle that took place the day after receihving my daughters email. Without getting into the details, my oldest daughter and I have started talking and spending some time together. I can't help the horror I feel inside. I realize that family court is severely broken, but what is the meaning of promoting anger, hate, and aggression in our children toward one of their parents.
1)Why would a GAL do such a thing?
2)Is this legal? If not, is it just another unjust act that we must contend with?
After not having seen my children for over one year I decided it was time to try one last time. Shortly after having my ex served, the children (15&12) were brought, by their mom, to see their GAL. That evening I received a horrifying email from my oldest. The email made it very clear that she had been given the papers from the court to read and she was enraged. The GAL never spoke to me, hasn't talked to me in 4 years, and told my children she was going to "take care of him in court". I know these things because of a small miracle that took place the day after receihving my daughters email. Without getting into the details, my oldest daughter and I have started talking and spending some time together. I can't help the horror I feel inside. I realize that family court is severely broken, but what is the meaning of promoting anger, hate, and aggression in our children toward one of their parents.
1)Why would a GAL do such a thing?
2)Is this legal? If not, is it just another unjust act that we must contend with?