but real quick - if she can't or won't get them to their games, it's up to you. If you don't have her cooperation, it'll be next to impossible for the boys to have such committed activities.
BTDT.
Also, people's priorities are different. She may believe family is more important than activities. She's not wrong. Neither are you. It's just different priorities. I have no problem with Parent A not being all about activities while Parent B is. Where my issues are, is when Parent A says sure, I'll help out, or I'll cooperate, then they don't. Or Parent A does nothing to facilitate the activity, except cooperate with whatever arrangements there are...but then uses that cooperation against Parent B (and the kids) whenever the opportunity arises.
Perhaps a compromise can be reached.
BTDT.
Also, people's priorities are different. She may believe family is more important than activities. She's not wrong. Neither are you. It's just different priorities. I have no problem with Parent A not being all about activities while Parent B is. Where my issues are, is when Parent A says sure, I'll help out, or I'll cooperate, then they don't. Or Parent A does nothing to facilitate the activity, except cooperate with whatever arrangements there are...but then uses that cooperation against Parent B (and the kids) whenever the opportunity arises.
Perhaps a compromise can be reached.