My spouse had an affair. Can I use this against him/her?

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My spouse had an affair. Can I use this against him/her?

May 14, 2012, 08:25:32 AM

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My spouse had an affair. Can I use this against him/her?

Probably not, unless you can show that it endangered your children in some way. Under 'No-Fault' divorce laws, extra-marital affairs are no longer relevent, for the most part.

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