So Tired!

[escape2paradise]

My the anger and hostility.  Hon I've got better things to do than trying to figure out your job description.  If the system is so broken, how did you manage to come out so far ahead of your X?  Are you saying the X got screwed thanks to you?

[olanna]

His kid came out ahead. He spent a ton of money on atty's to get his kid out of an unsafe and unhealthy situation, hence the main reason for founding this site as a resource, for the parents of children in the same situation.

Instead of arguing, why not spend a few minutes reading?

[SPARC Admin]

>My the anger and hostility.  

Yes, I noticed that about you. Maybe you should look into some counseling.



>Hon I've got better things to do
>than trying to figure out your job description.  

Then please go do them and stop wasting everyone's time here.



>If the system is so broken, how did you
>manage to come out so far ahead of your X?  

Because I'm a better parent, and even as screwed up as the system is, once in a while it manages to work.



>Are you saying the X got screwed thanks to you?

No, she screwed herself.

[SPARC Admin]

>Instead of arguing, why not spend a few minutes reading?

I don't think that's one of her strong points, to be blunt about it. :)

[FatherTime]

Who?Ray!


I just want to quote you and see if you are a woman of your words.

"I'm done with this."

To be honest it sounds too good to be true.


There are signs everywhere in the U.S. that show how the lack of fathers participation in the lives of their children IS  a real problem.  Increase in Gangs and teenage pregnancy are examples of this.  The blissful ignorant people don't know any better.  

See my site for evidence in music: http://www.geopics.net/fathertime

The court systems are in disagreement on what is in the best interests of the children.  50 states and 50 different rule books.  The breakdown starts at the state welfare system.  It goes through the "win at all costs" systems of court determination of custody.  Laws are interpreted by commissioners and judges who are in essence, the primary factor in the breakdown of the REAL child support system, both parents.  The judges and commissioners create case law, which trumps the legislative law.

When I went on one of my local television stations ten years ago on this very issue.  I spoke of gender discrimination.  The commissioner responded with a statement as to how Yakima County is more traditional and how fathers don't ask for custody.  Slavery was (is) traditional too, but that didn't make it right.  I asked for custody and was denied.  

IT is what it is .... and it's a crying shame.

It's ..
FatherTime