child support - back owed

[sweetnsad]

I CANNOT find any flaws with her story...how the hell could I when it's the only story I'm hearing??  The only way you could find a flaw is if you knew her and her story to begin with....
So enlighten us, Mustang...what is this "flaw" that has you so against the woman??

[Indigo Mom]

ya best modify that sh*t to get my name spelled right!  LOL

Anyway, the reason I responded was because you were screaming at 'YOU PEOPLE'.  

[stwbshort]

i really appreciate the information.  i will call them tomorrow.  hopefully that will get me somewhere.  

thanks!

[kiddosmom]

:) Well you should KNOW you were not included in that! LOL
I meant the people attacking the poster, you were not.

[mustang292]

-How do you know the video tape does not show the father actualy melesting the child?-

Exactly, how do you know it does? Like I said in an earlier post, Walmart won't take pictures of 5 month old babies without their diapers on because its now considered child porn. so what really is on that tape.
Read that same page where strwbry posted those links. Read it closely and think about it for a second.  At first I didn't see it but now I do.  Why would I give up the information voluntarily so she can change her story if this guy is innocent? I'm not trying to make her feel bad, I'm trying to make her be completely honest for all parties.  I don't have anything against her, I don't know her.  I see a problem with the story that you don't and I spoke my mind.  
   The only person that can even closely understand my situation I believe is Indigo because she has been put through it too.  Only when it happens to you will you ever truly understand because there are no words to explain it.

[MKx2]

[em]"A child molester should go to JAIL!"[/em]

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kiddo ... I think you're WAY off base here.

Jail is FAR too good ... castration for a man and a sloppy circumcision for a woman - both performed with rusty tin can lids ... a bit harsh, I will agree, however I have HUGE issues with molestation, a ZERO tolerance level for it, and I speak from personal experience.

Nope - no tolerance, zero, zip, NADA!  Flame me if you will, but walk in my little ol' worn out moccasins first and then tell me you disagree.  :-)

[hisliltulip]

The great state of MN (cough, cough) came after my DH for $7,000 in back support for BM, and $5,000 to the state because of her being on welfare, and medicaid.  (They were separated for a long time, divorce finally granted almost four years later).

DH got an attorney, who went over everything.

Long story short she was awarded $0 in back support.

State dropped their claim to just under 3k.  Which he pays a monthly payment of, and they take his income tax returns.

See if you can work with the state to "pay them back", but to have the CS owed to him dropped in lieu of him not being able to contribute to cs for you.

BETH

[mustang292]

  Read again closely. If you find it, fine, if not then to bad. All are innocent until proven guilty.  

[kiddosmom]

Exactly Mk,,

But I still think they should go to jail so they can get a 'taste' of what they have done to a child.

Yes I left the pun in there on purpose.

I am afraid you are not the only one in in those moccasins :(

[The OutLaw]

The only people that know what is on the tape is the child (unfortunatley) Her father, the state investigators and the county prosecutor.

why are you so defensive off the rip.

-Read it closely and think about it for a second. At first I didn't see it but now I do.-

 I have read it over several times and dont see anything that gives me the impression that she is lieing.

-Why would I give up the information voluntarily so she can change her story if this guy is innocent?-

This girl is not asking for information to put this guy away. She is looking for help from somebody. so she does not have to take money out of her childs or her mouth to pay back child support to a man that (if convited, and is looks like he will be) will be in jail for quit some time and not be able to pay her child support. $3000 my not be much in your eyes but in all reality 3k goes along way when putting food on a plate. espesialy in a time of need.

-I'm not trying to make her feel bad-

could have fooled me.

-I see a problem with the story-

you still have not said what that is.

-The only person that can even closely understand my situation I believe is Indigo because she has been put through it too. Only when it happens to you will you ever truly understand because there are no words to explain it.-

How do you know is has not happend to me. This post is not about me its about a "Frustrated Struggling Mother" looking for help.

not all women are like your ex and I think you need to reread some things you have said.