Now have temp and TRO

[Tennessee Dad]

First off, thanks for your response and your comments about mediation.  My thought is if I offer, and she refuses, she looks bad.  And if we go, and she shows herself, which she is prone to do, she looks worse.  So, I have made the offer to at least talk about it.  

As far as Judge giving her back to BM, the only condition I had her on was the TRO allowing temporary custody.  He told us when he first came in the courtroom unless we could prove danger, he had no choice but to let her go back to BM.  The fire investigator was the only witness called, because that was the only issue under consideration, and he stated the BM was not considered a suspect in the fires, and the alledged arsonist had been arrested.  So, that was the end of that.  But I really think he tried to find some reason to let me keep daughter, but legally there was none until all the evidence can be heard in June.  I'm just thankful I have her 10 days this month!  BM only wanted me to have 4!

Thanks for you thoughts!  I really helps to know someone cares.