Visitation

[shaden3]

You're the only one who can answer those questions. What you want and need is completely up to you. How to get those things, however, surely could use some problem solving help. First, spend some time figuring out what your best outcome would be. Then you can begin the planning phase. Listen to your own heart, follow your own instincts, make your own plan. Be careful to use other people's experiences to set your sites; they may be very different from you and their paths may not mirror yours.

[MixedBag]

pgh115:  do you still live in the state of NY?

[pgh115]

Yes i live in buffalo ny

[ocean]

What did the buffolo court say? Is it in writing their refusal to take the case or you just called?
If NY takes case, you have to serve her with the papers, do you have an address or work address for her?

[Davy]

PGH115

... and were you in a court dealing with the "Family Support Act" or whatever it is called.

  Was the court specific for those matters or part of HHS.

Just curious if paternity has been validated or what level of certainty you have.

[shaden3]

Please feel free to call 1-800-716--3468 for a free, confidential conversation about what's going on. Only for residents of NY.

[Davy]

Shad3 ... it substantially APPEARS this child has been kidnapped and may be at risk.

.... Federal statues may apply and NY may not matter.   

[Davy]

 PGH115

... and were you in a court dealing with the "Family Support Act" or whatever it is called.

  Was the court specific for those matters or part of HHS and did the court decline jurisdiction citing UCCJA or was it just a casual remark "to go to FL".  Was it an actual jusge that said it.

Just curious if paternity has been validated or what level of certainty you have.