request to sparc admin

[bigsigh2004]

could you please do me a huge favor and confirm to the members of this board I am not fleetingmoment?

Also, are profiles required? If so, I'll put one up, but I didn't see that it was mandatory. I didn't plan on staying long term as I am not one who is the best at giving advice.

I came here looking for suggestions, and I find myself being burned at the stake for things I'm not even doing & a person I am not. I'd like the record set straight so that the focus can get back to what is best for my daughter.

It may not be the popular thing, but it is what is best.  

[MixedBag]

They can check it out thoroughly -- down to seeing what IP address you are posting from and what others are posting from.

Profiles are not required, BUT people that have come here to hassle the board or others usually don't fill them out or lie on them anyway.

Skip the sarcasm......O.K.

[Hawkeye]

and a cat named Garfield too? how cool are you?  LOL

sorry if I've ever had a sarcastic moment, this site may just be experiencing another growing pain, don't we all?

[Peanutsdad]

Actually ,, you got burned at the stake for severasl things,, and you ARE right,, at least one of em is something,, you didnt do.

You got burned primarily due to being a cheap coward who's too afraid to be a parent. Your daughter isnt worth the time to you. Your "work" is more important,, thats too bad.


You got burned because,, NOW,,, you wanna 'fess up and say you went for custody for the wrong reasons. Dont tell us, go tell your exwife if you need absolution.



Frankly, I could care less who you post as. You want advice on how to get out of being a parent? Go talk to your wife and your exwife. I'm sure they'll both accomodate you.

[janM]

nm

[Peanutsdad]

Ummm points up at the thread,, who's the author?

[bigsigh2004]

I believe Jan was talking about hurling insensitve insults, rediculous accusations and flaming someone for no reason other than you have lodged a huge hornet's nest up your hindquarters. My post had nothing to do with my custody question but you had to be a jackass for the hell of it.

I understand you run your own site, (a rip off of this one) I also understand many of the posters there are from an old single moms site from some e-mails I've gotten from people telling me to ignore you.

How about I go over there and get the advice of the women on your board, see how a CP mom would want things handled if she were my ex, making sure to post the comments you have made to me thus far here? (none of which were anything close to helpful advice, just insulting)

Fact of the matter is, you do not understand the entire situation, you have not even bothered to TRY to. Do you do this to people on your board too? Or do you have some sort of split personallity going?

By the way, that is rhetorical, I have no desire to get into it with you.  Jan is very much right, the crap you are pulling isn't doing anyone any good so just shut up already. I came here for advice, not ridicule for my choice of what is in the best interest of my child.

[catherine]

And I thought you said you were leaving the board?

Again, it's OK to disagree with someone but you are violating the rules of the board by calling people names.  

From what I can tell, people told you to get a counselor (imagine that - it was my first post to you), seek advice from a lawyer to write up a new plan, and don't waste time telling your ex.  What else is there to seek advice on?

It happens that some posters here think you are giving up.  You don't think that.  Let me make this clear: You are NOT going to be changing our minds and we obviously won't be changing yours in regards to what parenting means.

Just truce, leave it be.

[janM]

I said nothing of the sort. I insulted no one, and told no one to shut up. I don't do that. All I was talking about was taking up valuable board space with...what? I kept out of this until I saw another unproductive thread starting. Please don't put words in my mouth...er keyboard.

What must new members think of all this? Scare them off most likely.

You folks have all said your piece...now let's let it go and move on.

[Bolivar]

You said this board advised you to ".... It wasn't pretty and I admit I pulled out all the stops to make things very hard for her. Stopped paying bills for the house so we were forced to sell, didn't pay child support because I wasn't "ordered" to, the works."

"My children were starving to death my ex was put in a Kook house, but I continued the course and listen to all the free advice I got from the specialist on this board."(ok, I added this sentence.)

AND

you "can't remember what my screen name was on here back then, sorry!"

Yea........Right.........


Liar, Liar pants of fire!
Hanging from a telephone wire! :-)